The Independent Woman is a difficult woman to deal with. Ever since Destiny's Child hit song the pride of the independent woman has sky rocketed to a whole new level. Now i hold all the respect for the single woman who has to raise her children on her own without the ain't shit man. But this makes the independent women to become arrogant and cold hearted and skeptical of man setting the bar for a man very high. when all most of us wanted to do is warm that cold heart and hold you in our strong arms so that when you tired of standing on your own you can let us carry you.